What’s The Most Important Lesson You’ve Learned: Words of Wisdom From Our Readers

About two weeks ago, Ruth and I asked you to send in your best advice on writing, editing, publishing, and marketing fiction. I am very pleased to say that nearly every day since my inbox has had wonderful messages from our many readers who were glad to send along their knowledge. Below you can see their comments, as well as wonderful pictures of them and their books. On behalf of the folks here at Self-Published Authors Helping Other Authors, we would like to thank you for your awesome contributions.

Here’s what our readers had to say:


Write the story you want to write.  Be passionate, follow your heart, and ignore what others are writing.  Just be you.

Debbie Conrad



Spell check. Spell check, spell check, spell check. After every draft, spell check. After every writing session, spell check. There are going to be things you missed, even if you think you haven’t; it’s just the way the mind works. Have you gone through five drafts with two meticulous editors, four former English teachers, eight hawk-eyed beta readers, and an incredibly observant slow loris? Spell check. You may only find six errors in eighty thousand words, but that’s six errors your readers didn’t find.

Spell check. Then, you won’t have to apologize.

B. Lynch


Always read the proof! First time I self-published, the book manufacturer sent me a proof copy. I was so excited to see my work in print form, I didn’t take any time to read through it. Consequently, in the first 50 books I ever sold, there were all manners and sorts of typos and small things I hadn’t caught during my initial editing. Sometimes, once the work is in print, you see it with fresher eyes and can spot things missed during the initial editing rounds.

Dana Myles


The most important lesson I’ve learned from self-publishing is; spellcheck is no substitute for a good editor. And a good editor is one that is first and foremost, a fan of your work.

Gwen Rhea



Although it’s hard to pinpoint one specific thing about writing, publishing or marketing, I think I can safely say, the overarching key to feeling competant in this field is (drumroll please)……. NETWORKING! The more people you meet, the greater your pool of resources, knowledge, and promotion. Make friends. Know everyone in the business you can and genuinely care about them, honestly seek out their knowledge, and give them credit for anything you learn from them. Help promote them and they’ll help promote you. Network. It goes a long, long way in every avenue in writing.
G.M. Barlean
Before you spend one dime, one minute, one ounce of energy on anything, whether it’s choosing a publisher, releasing your book, publicizing, advertising, marketing, do your research. At your fingertips is a vast information pool of success stories and failures. Tap into that to learn the best ways to publish and promote. Learn from others’ mistakes so you don’t repeat them. This will give you a leg up and pave the way for a better chance at success.
Eva Lesko Natellio
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No matter how tired you are of re-writing the ending or the tweaking the edits your editor gives you—do them with care and thoughtfulness. If you dash through them, or you’re simply freakin’ tired of working on the manuscript it WILL show up in the writing. You cannot fool readers. Put the work aside and do something else until you’re renewed enough to start again. It’s worth the wait.
BK Froman
I made so many mistakes on my first book. It wasn’t edited well, it had no promotion, I hadn’t research cover design enough, my website wasn’t up. The lack of editing was the worst; I had to put out a 2nd revision of The Distant Trees with corrections. Of course the reviews citing typos remained. I was in too great a hurry with excitement over publishing. With the subsequent books of the Elise t’Hoot series, I have been meticulous about multiple drafts, waiting a month, proofing, waiting, going through it again. I have a knowledgeable beta reader now, too, an English teacher. Then I revise as needed and do one more line edit start to finish. I still cannot afford professional ($1000 – $2000) editing  for each book in the series, but the amateur editing is far better now. Bottom line: Poorly edited books will haunt you.
Mary Ellen Wall
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Lots of people on the Internet offer their unqualified and/or overpriced services to self-publishing authors. Their best trick of all is getting you to pay for their advice on what you should do. Any failure to achieve what you want will be your fault. I haven’t subscribed to any of these services, but I see them everywhere, every day. Sad.
Ron Fritsch
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Before I published my book, I had this rather naïve idea that it would sell itself, that when people realize how good it was, they would buy it.   Once my book entered Amazon’s inventory, however, it became the proverbial needle in a haystack. I looked at and read other self-published books.   A few were not necessarily great stories, but the titles seemed to be everywhere. That’s when I learned that some of the books that rise to the top of popularity were there not necessarily because they were outstanding, but because they were backed by good marketing campaigns.  
Now that I understand that every book needs advertising, I’m budgeting time and money to market my book to improve its visibility.  I have found affordable advertising packages and blog tours, and I’m enjoying the new responsibility of being my book’s PR agent.
Amaia S. Li
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Using CreateSpace, which I adore, I was smart enough NOT to a) let them be the imprint instead of forming my own publishing company for 300 bucks (easy online), and b) not letting them supply ISBN number (which would be in their name), but supplying my own, Doing this retains 100% control and gives me piece of mind.
Rodney Richards
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When attending a local Sci-Fi & Fantasy convention , it’s always tempting to hide out in the video game, movie or board game rooms. (Especially when most of us who write are quiet folk who feel uncomfortable around large groups of people.) But when you do that, you waste a great opputunity to chat with fellow published writers! You never know what friendships you’ll make or pieces of advice you’ll get. I’ve made some lasting relationships from going to conventions and it helped a ton when I launched my first novel Blade Of The Broken… Don’t be afraid to mingle!
Jake Scholl
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The best advice I’ve learned from self-publishing is to just do it.  I took a “write-a-story-in-one-day” challenge, and from that I completed a short story.  With that, I loaded up to Amazon and *poof* I am a published author.  There’s so much talk about building your brand, having a platform, developing and maintaining a website, being active on social media and all that, but if you don’t have a book published, then why all the effort?  If people like you but have nothing to read, that’s a waste of potential.

That and find an editor.

DW Hirsch

Thanks once again to all our contributors for their wonderful advice. I hope we can do this again sometime and that you all find the advice above very helpful in your own writing. Have a lovely day, everyone.

[Editor’s Note: If you contributed have trouble viewing one of your photos or any other concerns, please let me know as soon as possible so I can rectify it. Thank you.]


20 thoughts on “What’s The Most Important Lesson You’ve Learned: Words of Wisdom From Our Readers

  1. G M Barlean March 21, 2015 / 10:29 am

    What a great idea. Everyone’s advice was excellent. Thank you for doing this!

  2. G M Barlean March 21, 2015 / 10:34 am

    Reblogged this on Less Traveled Roads Publishing and commented:
    There’s some great advice in here. The experience of others is always a good lesson. Thank you Ruth for having me as a guest.

    • Ruth Ann Nordin March 21, 2015 / 1:16 pm

      Rami’s the one who put in all the work behind this. All I did was the post asking for people to submit their pictures and words of advice to him. 🙂

      I loved what you said about networking. I’ve met some amazing people because of it, you included. 🙂

      • G M Barlean March 23, 2015 / 2:57 pm

        Thank you, Rami! Nice of you to say, Ruth!

  3. Ruth Ann Nordin March 21, 2015 / 1:17 pm

    Nice tips, everyone! And thank you, Rami, for taking the time to do this post. 🙂

  4. evanatiello March 21, 2015 / 3:40 pm

    Lots of solid advice here. Great idea for a post! Thanks Rami and Ruth!

  5. writerwarrior78 March 21, 2015 / 8:07 pm

    I also learned the hard way the importance of proofreading twenty times and then doing it ten times more. Ruth and Rami, thank you very much for allowing me to contribute to your post!

    • rami ungar the writer March 21, 2015 / 9:53 pm

      Thank you for contributing. We were very happy to have your two cents in the post.

  6. Susanna J. Sturgis March 22, 2015 / 8:14 am

    Reblogged this on Write Through It and commented:
    An array of excellent advice here from readers of the Self-Published Authors Helping Other Authors blog.

  7. Barbara Barbex March 23, 2015 / 8:23 am

    Reblogged this on The 960 Writers and commented:
    Really good advice all around, thanks for the collection!

  8. Carol Louise Wilde March 23, 2015 / 3:13 pm

    Some very good, very useful tips here. (Especially about editing, obviously!)

  9. yhosby March 23, 2015 / 11:50 pm

    Reblogged this on yawattahosby and commented:
    Here’s a wonderful post that gives some insight into what readers think. Readers are everything in the publishing industry.

  10. sharonccooper March 24, 2015 / 10:55 am

    What an awesome post! I think the only thing I would add to the thorough list is – keep writing and publishing more books. Our readers want more.

    • rami ungar the writer March 24, 2015 / 12:22 pm

      That is true, you have to keep doing that. Thanks for that, Sharon.

  11. jakeescholl March 24, 2015 / 12:59 pm

    Whoops. I meant quiet not quite… Darned typos.

    • rami ungar the writer March 24, 2015 / 3:03 pm

      It’s fine, you’re fine. Happens to the best of us. I’ll see if I can correct it.

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